There is a hefty difference between good-sexy-kiss-me-now confidence and jerk-pig-go-fuck-yourself confidence. When girls say confidence is sexy, most guys seem to think that demonstrating crotch-grabbing brazeness and prancing about like your god’s gift to women is what she means. Not even close.

Confidence is about being clear and consistent about who you are and what you want. You want my number? Ask me. . .don’t two-step around the question. You like watching sports? Slap on your jersey and whip out the remote. As long as you’re polite and respectful about what you want, women like confidence.

It’s not about being sure that you’re the best. Or, that every woman wants you. Or, that everything will go your way. Just be proud of your unique look, interests and intellect – confidence helps score the girl. Any questions?