Q: Dear ScoreHer Squad,

So I am dating this girl who is constantly nervous when we are together, she is nervous to do anything with me, and I’m not talking sex, I’m talking about when it comes to general touching, she gets nervous. I really love this girl, but I am getting annoyed at this, and no its nothing I have done, I compliment her all the time, say all the right things, or so I think. Got some tips for guys with nervous girls? -Spike

A: Dear Spike,

Dating Frigid Fran or Timid Tammy? That sucks. If you’ve got a case of the girl who won’t let you go there, there’s not much you can do. However, here are a few ways to figure out the cause and help you get over her hump.

1. Time: First, think about how long you’ve been dating. Maybe she just got out of a bad relationship. Maybe she’s clearing up an unsightly STD. Perhaps she’s a reformed slut-ho exercising enormous restraint. Or -- hard to believe -- but even the hot ones can sometimes go years without any sexual experiences. If she’s worth it, fold it up, tuck it back in and give her some time.

2. Games: If she’s not getting in the groove after a while, she could be playing you. Some girls like the attention, dinners, and compliments so much that they’ll string along some guy and have no real interest or attraction to him. If she’s just not that into you, cut your losses and start barking up another tree.

3. Issues: Some girls got major issues. Maybe it was Colonel Mustard in the conservatory with the candlestick. Perhaps it was Professor Plum in the kitchen with the can opener. Whoever done it and whatever he did, some guy fucked her up good (emotionally) and she needs professional help. Standing by her while she gets help is admiral, just don’t try unpacking her baggage all by yourself.

-Lana H (ScoreHer Squad)

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