August 3, 2006

What She Says: Whatever You Want. (OR) You Decide.

chicktionary.gif What She Says:
Whatever You Want. (OR) You Decide.

Wrong Answers:
Strip club it is then.
Football! Football! Go Packers!
Threesome it is then.
What She Means:
Being the great guy that you are, you ask your girl what she wants. She says: 'Whatever.' You think, WTF? Indecisive answers from a generally decisive girl means one of two things. First, she's pissed. Or second, she's testing you. Indecisive answers from a generally indecisive girl means you're dating a boring chick with no opinions and should dump her sorry ass, post haste - unless you like the Stepford wife sort of thing.

In the case of the generally decisive, but currently pissed-off chick, try calmly replying: 'I just want to make you happy baby and I can see that you're not, what can I do to make things better?' For the most part, when a woman is pissed, your best bet is forcing her to communicate. It may not be pretty, but it gets the job done.

In the second scenario, she's testing you to see if you can pick a fun activity. 'Fun' meaning mutually entertaining. . .generally not to include fantasy football, video games and da boys. Just give her two safe options and she'll be sure to thank you later.


Posted by ScoreHer at August 3, 2006 6:56 PM
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Comments

Make sure you don't make a habit of picking what you think she wants, because ...
1) She may not like it and then you both might be miserable.
2) Giving in to her silent demands starts a grudge that will be a big fight later.
3) It's novel, but maybe she actually wants to do something you want so don't be afraid to pick something you like.

Posted by: scott at October 7, 2005 9:56 AM

It seems girls are more indecisive than men. I also have noticed women dont like it when their men can't make decisions. So if they are being indecisive you should probably just jump on something because it shows your confident and assertive about what you want.

Posted by: Ben at March 3, 2006 2:33 PM

''I just want to make you happy baby and I can see that you're not, what can I do to make things better?''

Why see someone who's so much trouble? Why have to coax a dinner destination out of her? Or a movie? It's not that hard to say I'd like to see _______.'

This gets tiring very quickly, and is usually followed up with "You should have known I wanted (pasta)!"

Posted by: crella at March 13, 2006 6:10 PM

Right Answer: I paid you for last night. Go away.

Posted by: Patriarchal Oppressor at March 14, 2006 12:53 PM

Yeahh....sure..

When renting videos women come up with the idea of letting yourself chose this time. After that sentence, you all know the misery that follows. One hour later, we did not take one of the 20 movies, we wanted and suggested. Its those two funny AND romantic movies, she wants to see. Again.

Posted by: Crack Squirrel at April 15, 2006 4:53 AM

If its in the beginning (or sometimes later), it also could mean she barely gives a damn and just wants to move things along so she can go home.

Posted by: C at May 9, 2006 10:13 PM