My personal opinion is that actual size does not matter when it comes to a woman's breasts, as long as her jugs are bigger than mine (and no, I do not have man-boobs) and are proporational to her body. I hate seeing tiny, skinny chicks with massive knockers because it just looks absolutely ridiculous, like a fucking clown or cartoon characature. Conversely, if you're over 5'6" and weigh more than 140lbs, you better come with better than an "A" cup.

So, here's the deal. I'm not going to flame, but... The thing of requiring love to be "my age, give or take a year," or "you need to be two inches taller than me" if you're already six feet tall, or describing the EXACT physical/economic/emotional requirements for You to be Happy. And then complaining that you can't find what you want.

Most men want sex. Most women want to be taken care of (regardless of how 'feminist' they think they are. Men want Mommy, and Women want Daddy.

Especially if you are a woman who is 4'6" (or even 5'2" 3") and you want HIM to be six feet or taller. Especially if you are a man and you can only suck on mammaries five sizes too big for the rest of her.

Open up your expectations, and you jus might fine... You get what you need.

I am a straight white male and I LOVE big breasted women. Why? Because they are so fun to play with! There is NOTHING like having a large-breasted women straddle me during sex and have those delightful funbags hanging in my face. I can dive in and out of them like a dolphin playing in the surf. Really, NOTHING like it. That's why I love big breasts.

I thought I like big breasts until i recently banged a chick who had them. she was overweight and had huge DD's. after the experience, i finally realized that I a big fan of C's. for me the ideal woman is about 5' to 5'5" with an athletic frame. big boobies just don't do it for me anymore. i now will always associate them with fat girls.

I think a lot of men would agree that we don't really care about a women's breast size. Big or small it doesn't matter to me. If men really wanted only bigger breasted women then you would only see couples of men and big breasted women. But if you look around you'll notice that that is not the case. What I don't see is shorter men with taller women. And don't tell me that women reject short men because of "their own insecurity and poor self-esteem." Don't lie about it, just come out and say it. You don't wanna date a man who's shorter than you. It all boils down to what you want in a man and most women want the protector type. The taller, bigger, stronger guy who can protect them and comfort them. And short guys just don't fit that bill. Short guys may not be able to fit the role of the protector type but there are other things that we can do, like make you laugh, cheer you up when you've had a bad day, and make you feel just how we see you, truly beautiful...

Men like to LOOK at big breasts, for the women we are actually going to be with, we don't care as much as you might think. Small to medium sized breasts usually feel better, even if big breasts turn more heads.

Regarding C-cups: exactly. Just right.

Secondly: not all of us want blondes. The women in my life, both past and present, who keep me up at night aren't the blondes, they're the brunettes. Darker hair (and yes, redheads too!) is sexy...and while I don't buy the whole "blondes are dumb argument" at all, I just don't usually find blonde hair attractive.

Some exceptions, of course.

Believe it or not, I actually PREFER small breasts, ideally circa as big as my fist and firm as an automobile seat. Big breasts tend to be on big women. Either that or they're fake, which is not only physically gross, but a telling sign of a highly insecure person who can't stand herself, or own her own natural uniqueness, kind of like a self-cutter, or someone devoid of self-esteem or personality. Skinny tends to equal healthy, limber and fun in bed, and quite possibly, free of whatever compulsions or emotional instability drive 'big-boned gals' to nurse a gallon of Haagen Dazs thru the long, lonely night...

Yeah there's plenty of men who aren't into the whole breast thing at all, let alone blondes.

I'm not into either actually, though I certainly wouldn't rule out blonde women.. I don't really have preferences for hair colour. As for breasts... well as long as they're there - I dont really care what size they are.

The point is, guys can only dog women's standards if they're willing to forsake the D-Cup. Can you make that sacrifice?

No, the (first) point really is that it is socially acceptable that a woman can set a certain height as a criterion for a lover, but it is not socially acceptable for a man to say that his lovers must have a certain cup size.

The guy mentioned this, and you completely ignored it. The analagous counterpoint to "Women Only Like Tall Men" is "Men Only Want Skinny Women". Men have no qualms about saying that they don't want fat women.

You are so very wrong about men holding Jessica Simpson up as some sort of ideal of bangability. You were much closer when you name dropped Lohan, but geez, more dudes would probably kill to bang Gwen Stefani (before she got a fake boob job and got a posse of Japanese girls) and Stefani was as flat as a board.

If this was supposed to be a troll to get people all riled up or talking about your new site, I give it a B+.

As a bisexual girl, I'd have to say, girls are hot for who they are. It's impossible to say, 'a small-breasted girl isn't hot'. What if she's limber, light enough to pick up, and has clean, silky hair? Hot! Equally, I couldn't think all fat girls are unattractive. They tend to have asses perfect for spanking, full, sweet lips, breasts enough to drown in, and kneadable thighs. Totally hot! Women are just sexy as hell, by grace of their gender. Big boobs, small boobs, lanky girls, chunky girls- the main delight is that they're /girls/! Girls are like magic.

> Girls are like magic.

Except for the ugly ones. And the ones who run stupid websites about dating.

As a guy who actually prefers smaller breasts on a woman, I can't quite agree with the piece--though I have noticed well that women prefer men as tall or taller than themselves. They also seem to have a limit; no Thumbelina plus Lurch deals, apparently. But I'm six feet tall, so that's never been a problem, but the scorn heaped upon short men--REALLY short men--by women that I have heard is intense, like it serves to magnify any other shortcoming he has. Being flat-chested doesn't do that. (A woman being overweight, on the other hand, seems a more analagous situation with respect to the magnification of flaws in men's eyes--again, from my experience as a male with both male and female friends.)

So it's not impossible to overcome shortness, but the predisposition is not good.

I think big breasts look good clothed on the right frame, but after being with several women with very large breasts, I can say that I do not prefer them. When a woman with big breasts is on top of me I can't help but to think they look like big cows utters. Sexiness is a package deal. Things have to be proportional. Smaller breasts, for me, equate to more class and confidence. Also, being a short man (5' 5.5"), I can say that attitude makes all the difference. I have no problem dating taller beautiful women. Charm, wit and intelligence are what one needs to focus on cultivating. Make a woman laugh and you're golden.

As a woman who actually prefers short men, let me weigh in. I'm attractive, 5'7", dark blonde, blue eyes, normal weight (I used to be skinny, but I gave it up for Lent), 38C, so it's not like I can't find tall men to date. But short men have to work harder. They generally -- in my experience -- have better personalities, because they have to. I'll take a smart, educated, funny, confident short man over a tall man with the same attributes any day. So, short men, just keep looking. There are other women like me out there! (Of course, I too have my limits. I don't need to feel like you're so tall you can "protect" me, but I don't want to feel like I have to protect you. 5'6" or taller, please.)

Notice how the girl turned it around and dodged the question at the same time? Neat trick.

Her only honest comment was "women reject shorter men because of their own insecurity and poor self-esteem. Standing next to a shorter guy, some women feel, big, fat and therefore less feminine. At that's a fat that just can't be fixed." Who wants to deal with an insecure woman with low self-esteem?

A confident woman wants a confident man, period. Anyone who think short men can't be protectors, I got two words for you: Viet Cong.

Ok, Zoe? "5'6" or taller" is not a short man.

"Most men want sex. Most women want to be taken care of (regardless of how 'feminist' they think they are. Men want Mommy, and Women want Daddy" from trons' post.

I can't actually say that I wanted to have sex with my Mommy. She was too tall and had small breasts, lol. But seriously, I think most women and men just go for what fits; short and tall together can work, but the sheer mechanics and having sex with the 50 foot woman are mind boggling. Know what I mean? P.S. I am 6"1' and my wife is 5"4', we never had any problems apart from her thinking that my shirts are nighties!

This is an interesting double conversation, because (a) I love big breasts (not so crazy about the blonde thing though) ;-) and (b) one of my close friends is a short guy (5'4") who has not been with a woman for 5-10 yrs and he believes part of the reason is because of his height & women wanting taller guys...

OK, so down to bidnez.

Why big breasts? Absolutely no idea. I just know I love them. Every woman I ever had a relationship with was big breasted (that's NOT the reason I ended up with them - just a bonus).

They look fabulous, they feel fabulous & they ARE fabulous. I totally do not understand guys who are not into big boobs, but I guess the real positive about that is that there are more large breasted women left available for those of us who want them! :)

Men's height. This is a tough one. From my experience most women DO want tall guys - certainly taller than them, and in most cases 6'+. Makes it difficult even for me @ 5'10", but realistically, my poor friend has a tougher hurdle to overcome at 5'4".

I think at the end of the day, it's really his lack of self confidence around women (romantically speaking - he has quite a few female friends who do like him) that is the true problem.

I believe MOST women will have some attraction for a guy who has a good sense of humour & can make them laugh. A sense of humour seems to be a major aphrodisiac for women. Also, he needs to be self confident & treat her with respect.

I believe if he were to work on his own self confidence issues, he wouldn't have a problem finding a woman. Just my opinion, for what its' worth.

Tall Girls - Small Guys Never, unless hes got a big.......wallet.. Just look at Jockeys, racing Drivers & Owners,, Hey these girls dont go for looks..and dont mention the personality crap

"Tall Girls - Small Guys Never, unless hes got a big.......wallet.. Just look at Jockeys, racing Drivers & Owners,, Hey these girls dont go for looks..and dont mention the personality crap"

This comment sums it up beautifully. The truth is most people think like that. Let's not forget people; dumb bitches who soley want a tall protector end up being abused by the same bastard they thought would protect them. The same goes for men. The big tits they want in their face during sex eventually become deflated, wrinkled, pieces of skin that reminds them of their 85 year old grandmother. Guys who think big jugs are a requirement are disillusioned idiots. Because at the end of the day, all we have is personality. And if that isn't good enough for society, FINE. But I don't see society taking care of the perfect 'has been' tits or the 'so called' akward couple that consists of a shorter man and a taller woman.

people with smaller boobs are far more attractive,they dont sag they dont get stretch marks, they are damn rite good

In my personal opinion, a lot of women set themselves up for failure by the same logic, the instinct to seek protection. Big problems come in big packages. A lot of tall men know they have more choice and become players. More of the good tall men get snatched up and married. By avoiding shorter men, you miss out on a lot of good men and self-select jerks who are every lady's ex-boyfriend.

A confident woman wants a confident man, period. Anyone who think short men can't be protectors, I got two words for you: Viet Cong.

OMG LOL! My husband and I are the same height 5'6". At first when we were dating I thought it was really weird and a turn off that he was short, however after some time I took him in as cute. Being on the same level and not having to stoop to kiss is a plus.

My mother is married to a man who is the same height.

All the women in my family are married to men shorter or of the same height, save for maybe two aunts. I don't know if it's because my family is just like that or they tend to like short men. I have dated boys from both heights and someone mentioned that shorter men tend to have better personalities.

I don't want to offend anyone but I totally agree with that. The shortest guys I've dated were not arrogant or full of themselves as most men tend to be ^_-

Hmmm,
I have always preferred men under 5ft 8. Never been with a tall guy.

I LOVE shorties. I am 5ft 3, and I am all about the short men. Matter of fact my license plate frame says "Short men do it better".

Tall guys do nothing for me. Bring it on.

well, i am a short guy, about 4'11 and i think this site sux and i like tall girls

lennon, u are my nabor and u are like 6'4

I like big boobs, but *only* if they are real, don't sag *too* much, and come with a fairly slim waist. Otherwise I don't care about boob size as long as there is enough to fondle. Limiting by eye or hair color is stupid. There are beautiful women of almost any coloring combination. Take a look at her and *then* decide.

Im 65 inches; I never had self-consciousness about my heighth until people-yes people in general- gave me that self-consciousness. But it has nothing to do with sociobiology or women being the sexual equivalent of eugenics professors...Sad fact is: people in general are followers and the trend is toward taller people; few want a perceived loser, whether it be George Mcgovern, Jesus Christ, or short men. Shorter people are the Tibetans of physiology, and peoples ethics are weather vanes...

Personally i have been out with a few people who are smaller than me and they havent been very nive people but i can never say that i would rule a guy out just because they arn't tall. Being shorter means that they feell nice to cuddle and be with. I perfer to kiss down that up at someone too. I mean- who want neck ache cus their boyfriend is so tall. Get the yellow pages out. taller men can make you feel protected but that wears off after a while. Besides women should be self efficient and be empowered within themselves by just liking who they are and radiating confidence. Thats sexier right?

I'm a small cheasted woman and i feel that all mmen want is bigger breasts but if there are guys out there who can honestly say they perfer them them i would worry less about getting fit. Losing weight means losing other things too...

Would some guys out there say they perfer to have a slim, firm fit woman with a cup breasts than a bigger woman with breasts that stick in your face went you are making love?

I love women with small breasts, I really don't like bigger ones, I can't see what is supposed to be so appealing, yes theres more to hold, but why is that good? Why don't people who like big boobs like big bums? or do they?

I just prefer the look and feel of small boobs. You can easily fit them in your hands and sexually you can do just as much with small boobs as you can big boobs, more in some ways.

I think its really sad that girls with small boobs fill inadequate, not womanly or unattractive, its so silly, THEY SHOULDN'T.

I think that men who like small breasts just don't like to broadcast it as they will be seen as strange, but i think there are more of them than we think. I found that a couple of friends feel the same as me and they never broadcasted it.

Okay here's the deal: I'm a 33 year old SUCCESSFUL short guy (5'6). I run a mortgage company, have a drop-dead gorgeous finance (who's a 5'2 former all-american gymnast). Funny story though. I did the on-line dating thing for a couple of years, which I really liked namely for one reason. I could narrow down the criteria to age, height, etc. I would ONLY pick out the 5'9 and taller women to date. Many of them were turned off because of my height, but I did meet a few that didn't have a problem with it. You see, when I was in high school, height was no big deal to girls. I got all the girls, tall and short. Once I got in my twenties, I realized that mmost tall women want tall guys. I still think it's cool for a short guy to go out with a tall woman...why do you shut us short guys down EVEN WHEN WE ARE CONFIDENT, SUCCESSFUL, ETC?

well i realy wan't a man for me

Well....for one thing, which tall woman would want a man shorter than herself for god sake!? That would look very f*cking odd! It's not surprising that they want a tall man is it? Think about it. I am a midget as it is...and to think of going out with someone even shorter than me is just sick.

Besides, height is irrelevant. At the end of the day, people can't help it if they find someone attractive regardless of their height.

AHAHA funny site...first of all i'd like to say i'm a bisexual female who thinks small breasts feel the best!! and as far as the height goes,i definitly wouldn't date a shorter man UGGHH i'm 5"8 so anything below that wud seriously need to head in the other direction...maybe to the heels department. in saying that i prefer shorter women...something so sexy about them. also people who think blondes are ugly should chill...it's only a colour and yes its hot!!!

I LOVE short guys! I always have. I liked Barney better than Fred, Bennie better than Topcat. I think short men have their masculinity in a more concentrated, powerful form. It's totally sexy when they're self-confident with big personalities. I've dated a few tall guys and found their bodies awkward and less attractive. I much prefer a man in the convenient compact size.
As to breasts,very few of the big ones actually look like in the magazines. Once the "boulder holder" comes off, they avalanche down to the stomach. I've spent a lot of time in women's locker rooms. Most naked big breasts look like what they really are -- big saggy sweat glands. And that doesn't count those awful red gashes big breasted women get in their shoulders from having their bra bear so much weight. Big breasts look great until about the age of 25, and then it's literally downhill from there.

It is nice for he woman to taller than the guy. It is more interesting and sexy.
Taller man shorter woman is boring
is a boring relationship.

It is much nicer and interesting for the woman to be taller than the man. It is a very interesting and sexy relationship.
Many guys would love to go out with taller women in high heels wearing sexy dresses.

When the guy is taller it is a very boring and stale relationship.

If AGE don't matter to love,
if GENDER don't matter to love,
if PAST don't matter to love,
if FATE don't matter to love,
if COLOR don't matter to love...

Than why the HIGHT would matter to love?

Personally, I am a woman in love with a man 10 centimetars shorter. I found this site to see what other opinions are. And to realize that I don't have to have a prejudice about it.

I'm happy. It's all that matters.

I think it's wonderful that men prefer to look at huge tatas, playful as they may be. That's what they're for and most women only have that going for them. As for prefering taller men (hee hee), most men are taller than me. Overall, I would much prefer my own size and never had a problem with anyone complaining. Too large and they get very ugly when you're older. I'm almost 50 and I'm very happy with myself. As a female 5'1" tall with C cups, fairly fit and shapely, and fantastic long dark hair, I've not had any problems with men's height. I have enjoyed men of all kinds throughout my life, friends and lovers. I would say the only unappealing body problem I am particular about is stretch marks. Can't stand them on men and they are unsightly on women.

I realize women will like what they like, but the whole protector thing is silly. Maybe women should start asking their dates how many fights they won.

Besides, at least in the US how rare is it to see a fight? Maybe not if you live in the ghetto, but for most of us, pretty much never, and if it does happen people are quick to break it up.

And even if need protection was a valid concern, height is not much of a guaranteer of it. In high school, where there are a fair amount of fights, I frequently saw short stocky guys prevail over tall lanky opponents. Of course short scrawny guys are probably in the worst position, but even some of them can take a tall wimpy guy.

And the guys that tend to get picked first by women are rarely the best "protectors". The really good looking guys who aren't gay are having way too much fun chasing women to want to become tough guys. Women should be honest with themselves, these GQ types aren't much more likely to protect them against a brutal thug in a dark alley than a 5'4 120 pound guy is.

But to not cloud my argument, really people, we live in the 21st century, and how often have you women really needed your 6'4 290 pound guy to pound some thug?

Short men will live longer than tall men. Tall men are biologically unstable.

im tall male always got female attention its just we make our presence more visible cos of our height i luv nice pert breasts not the lumps of jelly with a cherry on it!!!!

An interesting thing about our soceity we are so judgemental and put to much stock in stereotypes.As a short man 5.6 I have not had much problem with the ladies.But it is so obvious on dating sites that 99% of the profiles by (attractive)woman are specific about wanting a man over 6',so I see two types of woman here,the ones who think they need what soceity says and then there are the woman who want what is real!As for the big boob thing I dont like anything biger than a "c" cup the smaller the better because woman with smaller breast also have great ass's and I want my woman to look great coming and going

My wife has brown eyes, I prefer blue; she has brown hair, I prefer red; she's 5'2" and skinny like a bean-pole, my preference is for taller women with an average build. However...

She eats cock like it's going out of style, takes it in the ass and leaves me the fuck alone when I'm watching football. I love her.

You people have FUCKED up priorities, none of you will ever be happy. (save the short dude with the ex-gymnast fiance. way to go big pimp. *thumbs up*)

I personally find that most of the comments here are intriguing. I mean really let's just point out the obvious. The media (TV, Movies, Magazines) has overwhelmed us with two glaring concepts;

a) Men must be tall to be anything but comedic relief

b)women must be shorter, slim with good sized breasts.

as a short man (5'6") in a Law Enforcment position who has not lost a fight in 10 years I know I can protect women from the majority of "danger". I am confident in my abilities and very good at what I do. I am active, very fit and would like to find a woman with the same qualities. Yet it is still challenging (not impossible) to find an attractive, fit woman who will date me.

I do not think that the "protector" concept holds water any more - it is simply a stigma that most woman want to avoid. The ideal man is 6' tall and if a woman is confident in her appearance - then in her mind she deserves the ideal. (quite frankly, if a 5' tall woman has her sights set solely on a man who is 5'10" or taller - she needs help with her self esteem and chiropractic neck adjustments)

I must admit that I am guilty of the stereotyping myself - I have nothing personally against overweight ladies, although I am not attracted to them. I feel for them as a matter of fact because an overweight woman in the dating realm is similarly viewed as a short man (EEK!!!)

There is absolutely nothing I can do to become 6' tall - an overweight person can and SHOULD change their lifestyle and fitness. As a matter of fact - should you be a few pounds overweight - men and women - you need to make a decision right now - research, consult with your doctor and start a fitness/nutrition regimen IMMEDIATELY. Don't wait. Do it now!

Advice for shorter men - get fit, be confident about your abilities, keep your sense of humor and don't give up - I have read that shorter men need to try 20 times more than the taller counter parts - challenging - but not impossible. (I am presently dating a woman 5' tall and she runs marathons...)

As for woman reading this as long as you are fit and have pride in your appearance - I don't think it matters what size your breasts are. If you are fit and the guy you are dating or want to date has an issue because your breasts are too small - Girl - you are dating the wrong guys. Also don't overlook the shorter guy (no pun intended) for dating shorter men can have many benefits that dating someone 10 inches taller than you may not have.

Good luck all.

iam writing an article for my school newspaper and find all of this interesting how man preceve women and how woman preceve man

I agree that some men do like women with big breasts but for the most part it's just a fantasy for men and big breasts in reality are not the most important factor as long as women do have more than an A cup breasts.

Men like an intelligent, career oriented woman that takes care of themselves. Yeah a lot of men don't like women that are overly heavy. Most men think they would like to have a Jessica Simpson type but with a decent brain and Lindsey Lohan who could stand that annoying little B. she is a spoiled brat that will never grow up.

Now on to the subject of women that like taller men. It makes no since that a woman that is say anywhere from 5'1" to 5'5" and then want a man that is 6" to 9" inches taller than them. It sure must hurt having to look up to them all them time plus women think they are safer with taller men. Please give me a break. Yeah there are some good men that are tall for the most part they are assholes. But an important question a woman forget to ask themselves is who is going to protect you from the tall muscular asshole that you think is the most wonderful guy in the world when in reality he is in fact an ASSHOLE/wife beater!!!! Doesn't the wife beater shirts mean anything anymore to women???

Back to the height question if women would get real and go with men that would look proportional with the women's height it would be a lot better. Say a woman is 5'1" she should go out with a man that is at the most 5'7" a woman that is 5'5" should go with guys that are between 5'7" and 5'9".

Women that think I must have a man no matter what my size is he has to be over 6'0" at the minimum get real. There is a whole other range that women over look it's called the 5' range!!! Women need to get over that the tallest most muscular asshole men are the gods. There are men such as me at 5'9" and men that are shorter that are datable without the assholeness can make women laugh ARE NOT INSCURE AT ALL in fact the tall asshole men are the real insecure men!! The shorter men probably more fun than the asshole men. Women GET REAL!!!

I don't fully agree that ALL WOMAN want tall guys. Woman are simply attracted to guys TALLER than them. I'm tall woman, 5"8 1/2 and the only reason I wouldn't want a guy under 6ft is because in high enough heels I would be taller than themlol. BUT when your a woman of say 5"2, a guy whose 5"6 will look tall to you, so really what most girls want is a guy taller than them, not neseccsarily tall.

Ok Sarah,
You seriously must be naive and totally insecure with yourself to only consider men taller than you. Just because you wear high heals shouldn't make any difference if you date a shorter man. All you are doing is making an excuse for yourself because you are too insecure with yourself to date a shorter man. I'm not saying since you are 5 8" 1/2 to date a man that is 5'4' that would obviously look stupid but a guy that is 5'6" or 5'7" you would hardly if ever tell the difference that he is shorter than you except when you wear high heals. Plus you probably don't wear high heals that often. So once you get over your insecurity give the shorter man a chance!!!

Who is to say she's the only one who's insecure? I'm 5'9" and athletic. I was very attracted to a man a few years ago, and he turned me down. I think it might have something to do with the fact that he was about 5'6" and very slim. Within weeks, he was dating a slender, petite girl. Shorter (and smaller) guys can be put off by women who are larger in height and build. I think there can be some insecurity on both sides, because women don't like to feel big next to their men. It does make you feel a bit less feminine.

I don't care how big a woman's boobs are, as long as the boobs have not been "ehanced".

Ok E, you see you are making the same thing Sarah is doing (and you are criticizing her for that!).
quoting E : "I'm not saying since you are 5 8" 1/2 to date a man that is 5'4' that would obviously look stupid but a guy that is 5'6" or 5'7" you would hardly if ever tell the difference that he is shorter than you except when you wear high heals"

See you are saying the same things as Sarah.

And why does it look stupid for a 5'4' man to date a 5 8" 1/2 ?? Do you care what other people may say?

I'm 5'5.5" and I'm dating a beautiful woman that is 5 10" tall. And although people may sometimes comment on that, we don't give a damn

I can see by the answeres and statements, why the divorice rates are so high today.
If you date or marry a person soley because of heigth, breast size, or weight, you are a selfish person, a shallow soul.
A relationship between two is bonded by respect, love, like, and that supernatural connection that makes two- one.When one will willingly and without complaint, sacrifice for the other. One that see's the others happiness more important than their own. One that knows pride and ego must be tossed out for the sake of the truth in that relationship. A true and happy relationship is as inexplainable as "love" itself- it just "is".
The types of the oposite sex that attract are different, but the actual relationship should be the same.
I find sexy and attracted to a women who is smart, humble, calm, strong, confident, caring, honest, fair and able to openly love sincerely. One that has respect for herself and takes care of herself to look the best she can. What bodily attributes are as a result are quite perfect enough for me.

i totally agree with WO...anyone who solely bases a relationship on physical appearances has issues

seriously, if someone is judging you based on appearance..they aren't worth your time or love

love yourself for who you are and live life to the fullest...

a hundred years from now..ur height, or the way you looked aren't going to matter...

education and basic positive characteristics (honesty, respect, faithfulness, and such)are so much more important!!

btw..im 5'2 and perfectly happy with myself

I could care less about big boobs...I honestly can say I am indifferent about a woman's bra size. Now her butt on the other hand, you can keep both Lindsay Lohan AND Jessica Simpson...I prefer Beyonce or Jennifer Lopez. But while I do enjoy a woman with a big butt, if that's all she has to offer, it's a deal breaker.

Ok..being a handsome guy at 5'7...i've had mixed success...some women (girls) ranging anywhere from 5'0- 5'9 have completely adored me! While others in that same range I'm sure had found me too short for their liking.
I used to take it personally, but I've realized it's the same argument as someone preferring thin or brunette or large-breasted, etc. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. For a "shorter" guy...I've done just fine. I'm usually the one ending the relationships!

K...now as far as what men find attractive? I would MUCH rather date a thicker girl with boobs, hips and a butt over a stick thin anorexic sociatal "ideal." All set. It's like banging a 10-year-old boy for cripe sakes! All my boys...and men world wide generally like a little somethin' to grab on to!
Me? I'm a sucker for large breasts. (No pun intended.) After dating both large and small chested females...the comparison is nil. But once again...to reitterate, its ALL about an INDIVIDUALS preference!!

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I am a short female. Straight as straight can be, I am into taller guys cause BE FOR REAL the cant really come shorter then I already am! I do NOT have big breats and I am FINE with the size mine are right NOW..I wouldnt wont to change them for anything..Shorter guys shouldnt fell so bad..TRUST ME..I like shorter guys, it doesnt make me look that short..EVEN IF I AM! I DID THINK THAT ALL GUYS LIKED BIG BOOBS..

BUT

my boyfriend likes mine just fine..and I like his area just fine..and let me say he's 5'11" and HOTTER THEN HELL

I LOOK AT IT THIS WAY

short guys are hot

small boobs are hot

its not MY fault some guys cant work the whole SMALL BOOB THING

A HANDFUL IS PLENTY AND A MOUTHFUL IS ENOUGH

I love being five two
I get dicsounts on clothes
I am more comftarble seating in cars and airplanees,
I am a fairly attractive guy who happens to short I've had mixed results with the Ladies but I totally understand why they would not date becuase of my hieght- Different strokes different folks
From my perpective I honeslty think girls boobs look bigger to me than other bigger guys
I believe in my eyes girls are a cup size larger than they really are. So what might be small boobs to a 6'-6'4 guy I would think they where are pretty large.
THat is one advatange a short guy can be proud off.

Women who only go out with taller guys are usually not very confident. They are worried too much about what society thinks. If a woman is just going on physical attraction they do tend to go for a man who is taller than them. Although I've been with 855 women and I'm 5-5. I always had better luck when the girls saw my body (I'm built) and I had a chance to talk with them. If I'm in regular clothes they don't give me as much attention.

Confidence really helps. I know I'm intelligent, built and funny. I look at most girls like they are physically flawed, which 99.9% are. Even the best looking girl will have a weak spot when it comes to her body. Remember too the older girls get the more flawed they are.

I'm a short (5'3") in height,

Good points IM

D, you're points were all good except the statement that short guys may not be able to be protectors.
Glad you used the word "may" and not "can not" as whoever posted the statement re: Viet Cong proves the stereotyping of short men to be incorrect.
Also I know a lot of tall men who are weak as piss when it comes conflict, basically it all depends on the individuals background, eg whether they have positive sporting results esp in body contact sports.
Confidence is built on experience, some get blinded by it, i.e over-confident (cocky), and often it shows and women don't like guys even if tall and attractive who tend to constantly look around at other girls for acceptance instead of paying attention to their women at hand, you know the types I mean.

To Zoe (Isn't that life in Greek?), 5'6" isn't short but yes shorter than you, just.

I think most people miss the point about Women Only Want Tall Men (correct me if I'm wrong in assuming you meant that "Most" instead of "All" (by leaving out the word most, some, few ,etc) and the use of the word " Only" in that context, indicates that you beleive that (Every) living women Without exception overlooks a guy shorter than themselves.
If reading womens personals and the type of guy they seek than yes TALLER men is what MOST want, for whatever reason that may be, I simply put it down to programming of their brains by the Media (Magazines, TV soaps, Big Screen idols, and so forth,
basically it's stereotyping.

I don't even try to date taller women even though I have but only by an inch or so, mainly because from what I see in their eyes is not re-assuring and as the work-out guy said, untill clothes are of, I don't get a 2nd glance, but when I'm at a beach, then ther's no probs unless of course there's a much taller guy with a good as my body.
Being able make women laugh and made to feel comfortable doesn't guarantee a date, one must have finess and the ability to chrm the pants of them, and that normally means charming them with lots of white lies, which is easy if one doesn't look at the women as someone with feelings but rather just another notch on their scoreboard.

Ok Seb that's enuf, LOL I hope I'm on the right track, if not at least my fingers got a bit of exercise hitting these keys.

Things should change but, you can't change people's view's if they don't want to change, and Hollywood, thanks to religious books, grrrr will do all to prevent a financial killing from being reversed, could you imagine if people were taught not to care about what other people think, Cosmetics, Gyms, fashion designers, toy/game mfrs, etc would lose a lot of business.

That's all falks